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To show someone you love them without having sex

  1. Buy them a gift
  2. Get their name temporarily tattooed on your body
  3. Each suck one end of a piece of spaghetti
  4. Cook haggis for them and eat it!
  5. Play footsie
  6. Caring for smaller needs
  7. Offer to walk the dog so I can get a lie in!
  8. Tell them everyday.
  9. Whisper sweet nothings in their ear
  10. Taking the children away for a few hours
  11. Going back to a special place that means a lot.
  12. Bake them a cake!
  13. Dancing in the rain.
  14. Plant a load of daffodils in the shape of "I Love You".
  15. Make a crop circle in the shape of "I Love You".
  16. Write something special on a mirror so it appears when steamed up.
  17. Take an interest in what they are saying.
  18. Make fireworks and set them off so it is in the shape of "I Love You".
  19. Put petrol in car when you know your partner is running late
  20. Put the electric blanket on
  21. Let your partner warm their freezing feet against you
  22. Show them things that mean something important.
  23. Make cookies and cheese.
  24. Wait till Valentines Day.
  25. Tell them about yourself.
  26. Give them a smile.
  27. Respect what they want and don't want.
  28. Share your Twilight book.
  29. Lick their face.
  30. Outings
  31. Snog them.
  32. Watch movies
  33. Hold them.
  34. Hold hands
  35. Buy them some underwear
  36. Gaze at the stars.
  37. Meet their friends and family.
  38. Share your dreams.
  39. Watch the sunrise
  40. Cuddle at the cinema.
  41. Go on a horse/donkey ride along the beach.
  42. Parachute together.
  43. Walk hand-in-hand across the beach.
  44. Tell them all the little things you love about them
  45. Cuddle
  46. Send a romantic text
  47. A stroke on the neck
  48. Pay a bill for them
  49. Do something fun and have a laugh.
  50. Compliment them and make them feel special
  51. Send them a love letter
  52. Have a locket with their picture in it
  53. Write them a song and sing it to them
  54. Going out for dinner
  55. Tell them you love them
  56. Cook them their favourite meal
  57. Buy a cream egg and leave it in the car as a surprise
  58. Name a star after them
  59. Support through good and bad times
  60. Communicate
  61. Hold them and let them know you care
  62. Make a romantic meal
  63. Share strawberries dipped in chocolate
  64. Be proud of your partner.
  65. Randomly walking up to your partner and kissing them without talking first
  66. Make clear that you care what happens to this person in their life and day-to-day living
  67. Take them to the place where you first met
  68. Give them flowers
  69. Give them your last rolo
  70. Stay up for hours together, just talking
  71. A big hug
  72. Sharing life
  73. Touch when they don't expect it
  74. Go for a long walk together
  75. Write their name in large letters in the sand
  76. Picnic on the beach at sunset
  77. Kiss
  78. Random acts of kindness
  79. Pick them a flower
  80. Buy them a piece of the moon
  81. Touch their bum
  82. Learn to say I Love You in 10 difference languages
  83. Listen to them without judging
  84. Write a poem
  85. Read them poems.
  86. Don't wake her up when she's snoring as she looks quite cute
  87. Give them a box of chocolates
  88. Look into their eyes and smile knowingly
  89. Make a scrapbook with photos of times together
  90. Kiss on the lips and ruffle their hair
  91. Talk to each other about what you like about sex
  92. Tickle them
  93. Buy them a kinder egg and hide a ring in it
  94. Breakfast or supper in bed
  95. Organise an "I Love You" message from the back of a plane
  96. Sailing for a summer holiday
  97. Treating them with respect through feelings verbal and non-verbal feelings.
  98. Be genuine.
  99. Write their name with a sparkler.
  100. Let them wear your top if they are cold.
  101. Make them a cup of tea when needed